Most conversations stay surface level. Not because we don't want to go deeper, but because we blank on how to get there in the moment.
Ask More gives you two or three questions to think about before you walk in the door. Read them, pick the one that feels right, put your phone away. That's it.
Questions drawn from Dr. Arthur Aron's intimacy research, the Gottman Institute, and our own library, filtered for who you're seeing and how deep you want to go.
Who are you seeing?
Curious and easy. Safe for anyone, no existing trust required.
Invites reflection and some self-disclosure. Good when there's already some rapport.
Requires real trust. Save these for people you know well and moments that invite honesty.